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The Connoisseur

You take your time because you know what you are looking for.

The Connoisseur is not withholding; she is precise. Her standards are not a defense mechanism but a clear statement of what is actually interesting to her. She moves slowly toward new connections because slow movement has produced her best ones, and she has the evidence to show it. When she is interested, the signal is unambiguous. Getting there takes the right company and the right conditions, both of which she can name.

You tend to

/Suggest dinner before anything else, because the conversation reveals what the rest of the evening will be
/Have a short list of connections you have maintained carefully rather than a long list maintained loosely
/Know exactly what you want and be able to say it plainly when asked
/Take longer than most to decide, and find that this is not a problem
/Give vouches rarely enough that the ones you give mean something

Connects well with

/The Gentleman — his patience matches your pace
/The Connoisseur (men's) — matched selectivity

Not to be confused with

The Sovereign. The Sovereign is deliberate about structure; you are deliberate about selection.

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