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The Cavalier

You decide in the room.

The Cavalier trusts her own read. She is not reckless; she is present. Her approach to the lifestyle is governed by instinct more than protocol, and her instincts have been calibrated over time. She does not need elaborate arrangements to have a good evening. She needs a room where the energy is honest and the people in it are what they say they are.

You tend to

  • /Respond to directness with directness, because it saves everyone time
  • /Arrive at an event without a fixed plan and find that the evening takes shape on its own
  • /Have limits rather than rules, because rules do not account for the room
  • /Trust the difference between a bad feeling and mere uncertainty, and act on both
  • /Find that the connections worth keeping arrived without ceremony

Connects well with

Not to be confused with

The Initiate. The Initiate is new to this; you are settled in yourself.

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